In choosing a life partner, we demanded to really pay attention to the nature and habits of our spouse when the approach to the case. Because in the real teachings of islam do not allow the House of adam and Eve to dating before marriage, then it came to know yourself to ta'aruf men/women who would be on the set as a couple.
The following are the characteristics of women's shalehah which facilitates the way husband in picking up a provision
1. Women who are obedient to God and his apostle.
There are four factors into consideration before marrying a woman, that is because of her beauty (1), (2), (3) and (4) his religion. We are commanded to choose the woman due to his religion, lucky if it can get them. Women who are obedient to God and his Apostles will carry households toward heaven, toward peace. Households that are peaceful, comfortable, happy is a very valuable means of sustenance. Household dinahkodai a Godly husband accompanied the wife of the household salehah will make it a blessing, producing godly children/teaser, get the pleasure and God's mercy.
2. Women who are obedient to her husband.
If I can be sent someone to bow down to other people is necessarily a wife I will send to bowed to her husband (H.R. Tirmidhi and Ibn maajah). All orders the husband does not conflict with religion, then the wife is obliged to live by. Obedience a wife her husband would make heart husband peace and quiet and can run its search for halal sustenance for families. Would with any women who worked outside the home can keep working throughout her husband's permit and its obligations to keep yourself well in the workplace.
"The man is a leader over women because God has given the more part of them (men) over some of the other (woman) and hence something that has them (the men) spend of his possessions. Then the women of the pious is devout again kept themselves behind her husband as God has kept him ". (Q.S. An Nisa: 34).
3. Women who served her husband well.
The main task of the wife is running a household task with his best, serving the husband well and educate his children. A good wife is trying to serve her husband as well as preparing the food, prepare needs biological needs, meet, keeping her husband's feelings don't get hurt because of her husband's demeanor. Such a woman would be a cherished husband and could be a good partner in realizing the sakinah House hold and attract positive things in his household, including provision for the husband.
4. Women who decorated just for her husband.
"The real world is the best of the world's jewelry and jewelry is a teaser for" (H.R. Muslims). Is the nature of women who like preen and ornate, but pious woman who just decorated and adornment for her husband.
A woman if her husband is seen is always fun and knows how to please her husband. Women are even Angels pray for him will ease any sustenance came to him.
5. If the left keep honor and conjugal property
When the husband is out earning a living, the wife left at home should keep his honour, keeping him from inappropriate guests, limit out of the House if it's not too important. Treasures deposited her husband used on useful things with the permission of her husband. Women like this make it easier to get into his house sustenance as a reward of his obedience to God and faithfulness to her husband.
6. The woman who always ask the husband agrees to it
This woman knows how to please her husband. Keep your attitude and behavior so as not to offend and hurt the feelings of her husband. He always tried to let her husband not to upset him. She won't go to bed in a State of anger or left her husband in an upset to obtain his pardon. Invites her husband joked to her menceriakan. Trying to educate her children well. Keep the secret marriage of others. "Will you guys kuberitahu wives who becomes the host i.e. a loving wives, many children, always go back to her husband, where she upset if her husband came up to her husband and put his hand on her husband's hand and said" I could not sleep before you pleasure "(H.R.An Nasa'i). The wife of a wife like this is facilitated through the hands of her husband or her sustenance because of practice and devotion at her husband,
7. Women who receive the gift of the husband with sincere
The woman who never complain regardless of sustenance that brought home her husband. Always sincere accept and appreciate whatever was given to her husband. Much be grateful for the slightest accepted sincerely. A woman like this is a woman who thanks his sustenance. God has promised that if we are thankful He will add to our sustenance. Women who are grateful and sincere sustenance of her always increased both the quantity as well as the blessing of God will be given directly to him or through her husband.
8. A woman who can be a partner to achieve the pleasure of Allah.
The woman who made the bylaws as worship, his devotion to God. Could be a friend for a balanced discussion of the husband. Can make corrections and delivered it gently to her husband. Listen to advice and her husband's words with care. Before carrying out such acts of worship fasting circumcision circumcision requested permission to her husband and not execute if it is not allowed. Could be the impeller and motivational speaker husband to succeed the world and the hereafter. That's why there is the phrase "behind a successful man there's a great woman behind him". Because women like these are the main sustenance of her husband.
9. A woman who has never given up prayer for her husband.
A woman is a woman who is thankful to receive all the will of God's destiny/him but still try to do the best including pray for husband and children in order to make a success of the world hereafter. This woman never broke up prayers, but making it as a daily routine, to decorate the lips after the prayer. This woman knows that her husband's sustenance will be added and endowed if himself always involve God in her husband's steps through the dipanjatkannya prayers every day.
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